Restore dirty dnode detection logic

In addition to flushing memory mapped regions when checking holes,
commit de198f2 modified the dirty dnode detection logic to check
the dn->dn_dirty_records instead of the dn->dn_dirty_link.  Relying
on the dirty record has not be reliable, switch back to the previous
method.

Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Issue openzfs#11900 
Closes openzfs#12745

module/zfs/dnode.c

@@ -1662,7 +1662,7 @@ dnode_is_dirty(dnode_t *dn)
 	mutex_enter(&dn->dn_mtx);
 
 	for (int i = 0; i < TXG_SIZE; i++) {
-		if (list_head(&dn->dn_dirty_records[i]) != NULL) {
+		if (multilist_link_active(&dn->dn_dirty_link[i])) {
 			mutex_exit(&dn->dn_mtx);
 			return (B_TRUE);
 		}