Stepping forward in upstream sim while paused doesn't change state of downstream sim

[Nancy-Salpepi]

Test device
MacBook Air M1 chip and iPad

Operating System
14.5 and 17.5.1

Browser
Safari 17.5

Problem description
For phetsims/qa#1100, while trying to replicate #282 I came across another issue that occurs while paused.
In the state wrapper, on any screen, if you use the step forward button in the upstream sim the particles do not update in the downstream sim.

Steps to reproduce

1. In the state wrapper, on any screen press Pause in the upstream sim
2. Add some particles
3. Continuously press the Step Forward button--the particles do not update in the downstream sim.

Visuals

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Reproduced in main.

Note that #276 and #280 are both bad State Wrapper behavior when the sim is paused, and both related to the position of particles.

This is probably related to incorrect or missing use(s) of isSettingPhetioStateProperty, in relation to isPlayingProperty.

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This was fixed by 98b2d2d over in #276. (I love it when that happens.)

@Nancy-Salpepi please verify, close if OK.

[Nancy-Salpepi]

yup! This guy is fixed too!