[22604] Filter interested readers on PDP writer

[MiguelCompany]

Description

This fixes a high CPU and network usage situation with PDP simple discovery when a new participant is created in a network where there is a high number of existing participants.

@Mergifyio backport 3.1.x 3.0.x
An ABI compatible backport would be manually done to 2.14.x, and we will backport to other 2.x supported branches from there.

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• The code follows the style guidelines of this project.
• Tests that thoroughly check the new feature have been added/Regression tests checking the bug and its fix have been added; the added tests pass locally
• Any new/modified methods have been properly documented using Doxygen.
• N/A: Any new configuration API has an equivalent XML API (with the corresponding XSD extension)
• Changes are backport compatible: they do NOT break ABI nor change library core behavior.
• Changes are API compatible.
• N/A: New feature has been added to the versions.md file (if applicable).
• N/A: New feature has been documented/Current behavior is correctly described in the documentation.
• Applicable backports have been included in the description.

Reviewer Checklist

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