cudaPackages: remove vendored libraries (again)

[SomeoneSerge]

Issue description

We already had #239557, closed by #240457. Now we're seeing the redist nsight_{compute,systems} bring in the vendored dependencies, breaking autoPatchelf: #275921 (comment). That's a blocker for #269639.

Remark: at this point we don't really want to even try making the vendored libraries work, because the only safe assumption we can make about them is that they're broken and are not patched for vulnerabilities. Some of the recent runtime errors in nsys-ui may have been caused by the vendored libraries: #232458 (comment)

@NixOS/cuda-maintainers

Proposed solution

Generate a white list for each package, using https://github.com/nix-community/nix-index.
If a path is a DSO and its soname appears in the index generated by the public CI (produced with allowUnfree=false), it's probably a vendored dependency that we should be taking from Nixpkgs instead.

This could be integrated into https://github.com/ConnorBaker/cuda-redist-find-features/

Technical details

Please run nix-shell -p nix-info --run "nix-info -m" and paste the result.