feat(server): add graceful shutdown support

[chenjiahan]

Summary

This PR introduces support for graceful shutdown:

• handling of SIGTERM signals (for container orchestration environments)
• handling of CTRL+D in non-CI environments
• support for reference counting for multiple servers

Checklist

• Tests updated (or not required).
• Documentation updated (or not required).

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