apacheGH-41369: [CI][GLib] Don't use /usr/local on macOS (apache#41387)

### Rationale for this change

We don't have write permission for `/usr/local` on macos-14.

### What changes are included in this PR?

Use `/tmp/local` instead.

### Are these changes tested?

Yes.

### Are there any user-facing changes?

No.
* GitHub Issue: apache#41369

Authored-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>
Signed-off-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>

.github/workflows/ruby.yml

@@ -117,7 +117,7 @@ jobs:
         run: archery docker push ubuntu-ruby
 
   macos:
-    name: AMD64 macOS 12 GLib & Ruby
+    name: AMD64 macOS 14 GLib & Ruby
     runs-on: macos-latest
     if: ${{ !contains(github.event.pull_request.title, 'WIP') }}
     timeout-minutes: 60
@@ -132,7 +132,7 @@ jobs:
       ARROW_GCS: ON
       ARROW_GLIB_GTK_DOC: true
       ARROW_GLIB_WERROR: true
-      ARROW_HOME: /usr/local
+      ARROW_HOME: /tmp/local
       ARROW_JEMALLOC: OFF
       ARROW_ORC: OFF
       ARROW_PARQUET: ON
@@ -141,7 +141,6 @@ jobs:
       ARROW_WITH_SNAPPY: ON
       ARROW_WITH_ZLIB: ON
       ARROW_WITH_ZSTD: ON
-      XML_CATALOG_FILES: /usr/local/etc/xml/catalog
     steps:
       - name: Checkout Arrow
         uses: actions/checkout@v4

ci/scripts/c_glib_test.sh

@@ -24,6 +24,7 @@ build_dir=${2}/c_glib
 
 : ${ARROW_GLIB_VAPI:=true}
 
+export DYLD_LIBRARY_PATH=${ARROW_HOME}/lib:${DYLD_LIBRARY_PATH}
 export LD_LIBRARY_PATH=${ARROW_HOME}/lib:${LD_LIBRARY_PATH}
 export PKG_CONFIG_PATH=${ARROW_HOME}/lib/pkgconfig
 export GI_TYPELIB_PATH=${ARROW_HOME}/lib/girepository-1.0

ci/scripts/ruby_test.sh

@@ -22,6 +22,7 @@ set -ex
 source_dir=${1}/ruby
 build_dir=${2}/ruby
 
+export DYLD_LIBRARY_PATH=${ARROW_HOME}/lib:${DYLD_LIBRARY_PATH}
 export LD_LIBRARY_PATH=${ARROW_HOME}/lib:${LD_LIBRARY_PATH}
 export PKG_CONFIG_PATH=${ARROW_HOME}/lib/pkgconfig
 export GI_TYPELIB_PATH=${ARROW_HOME}/lib/girepository-1.0