Add a check on the grid/component consistency in the blueprints

[keckler]

What is the change?

Close #1400 .

This PR adds a check on the grids associated with a block to ensure that the components that are supposed to be in the grid (based on them having the latticeIDs attribute) actually are, and in the correct number.

Why is the change being made?

#1400 pointed out that there can be inconsistency here by pretty simple user errors. This has come up in my own work, and having ARMI be more robust to this kind of error is desirable.

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