[feature] Default to WASM-based SQLite driver

[daenney]

Description

With 0.16 out this switches our default SQLite driver to the WASM-based solution instead. So far the driver seems to perform just as well. Switching our default should result in it getting a bit more testing during the 0.17 development cycle.

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[daenney]

The diff on this is really awkward because Git...

[daenney]

If issues arise we can revert this commit before we cut a 0.17 release candidate.

[daenney]

@tsmethurst I think this requires your intervention because it also changes the Drone file.

[tsmethurst]

Kapow!