fix: throttle color controls and make updateArgs and resetArgs stable

[Ang-YC]

Issue:

What I did

Fix a bug where Color controls are not throttled properly and causing sluggish preview

This is mainly caused by:

• updateArgs and resetArgs is not stable (It depends on data / story which contains reference to args, so it is re-created everytime args is updated)
• throttle for ColorControl is not called inside a memo function

To reproduce, go to this story https://storybookjs.netlify.app/official-storybook/?path=/story/addons-controls-sort--none and try to move around the color picker of the color control fast enough, the speed of re-rendering is too slow to catch up.

How to test

• Is this testable with Jest or Chromatic screenshots?
• Does this need a new example in the kitchen sink apps?
• Does this need an update to the documentation?

If your answer is yes to any of these, please make sure to include it in your PR.

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[tmeasday]

This looks very sensible thanks @Ang-YC. I think we can resolve the typing issues later.

[ndelangen]

Thank you for this PR @Ang-YC !!