NH-41991 Verify Installation tests use ec2 action runners

[tammy-baylis-swi]

Replaces old verify_installation workflow that used regular GH action runners + QEMU with new verify_installation that uses our ec2-runner-action. Thank you Raph for all your tips through this one!

Much faster and no more random failures! Example run: https://github.com/solarwindscloud/solarwinds-apm-python/actions/runs/5135753921

Both x86 and aarch64 wheel installations are being tested, e.g.:

# install-tests (amazonlinux:2023, x64)

Using provided MODE=pypi for check_wheel test.
Set WHEEL_FILENAME=manylinux_2_27_x86_64.manylinux_2_28_x86_64.whl based on platform for check_wheel test.

# install-tests (amazonlinux:2023, arm64)

Using provided MODE=pypi for check_wheel test.
Set WHEEL_FILENAME=manylinux_2_27_aarch64.manylinux_2_28_aarch64.whl based on platform for check_wheel test.

The Python version X Linux distro coverage is similar to the old workflow. Neither workflow has much py3.10/3.11-on-Ubuntu coverage because of https://swicloud.atlassian.net/browse/NH-31430. py3.12 isn't covered at all because it hasn't been released yet, though an alpha version is available in some public images. I will address these in future PRs.

[raphael-theriault-swi]

Running a tiny bit faster I see