rpc-send-tx-svc server-side retry knobs (backport #20818)

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #20818 done by Mergify.
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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   core/src/validator.rs
	modified:   local-cluster/src/validator_configs.rs
	modified:   replica-node/src/replica_node.rs
	modified:   validator/src/main.rs

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	both modified:   Cargo.lock
	both modified:   core/Cargo.toml
	deleted by us:   replica-node/Cargo.toml
	both modified:   rpc/src/rpc_service.rs
	both modified:   rpc/src/send_transaction_service.rs
	both modified:   validator/Cargo.toml

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Codecov Report

Merging #20830 (0b55d02) into v1.8 (29eae21) will decrease coverage by 0.0%.
The diff coverage is 79.3%.

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- Coverage    81.9%    81.9%   -0.1%     
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  Files         453      457      +4     
  Lines      128028   128655    +627     
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+ Hits       104913   105386    +473     
- Misses      23115    23269    +154