refactor function for stable perf

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Problem

Avoiding push items into vector without capacity, which could unpredictably impact performance, depending on number of items being pushed into vector.

Summary of Changes

1. refactored checking cost limit into a separate function, using iterator partition instead of pushing retryable transaction index into vector.
2. added test cases.

Fixes #19275 (part of)

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