split up CUDA-suffixed dependencies in dependencies.yaml (#1364)

Contributes to rapidsai/build-planning#31

In short, RAPIDS DLFW builds want to produce wheels with unsuffixed dependencies, e.g. `cudf` depending on `rmm`, not `rmm-cu12`.

This PR is part of a series across all of RAPIDS to try to support that type of build by setting up CUDA-suffixed and CUDA-unsuffixed dependency lists in `dependencies.yaml`.

For more details, see:
* rapidsai/build-planning#31 (comment)
* rapidsai/cudf#16183

## Notes for Reviewers

### Why target 24.08?

This is targeting 24.08 because:

1. it should be very low-risk
2. getting these changes into 24.08 prevents the need to carry around patches for every library in DLFW builds using RAPIDS 24.08

Authors:
  - James Lamb (https://github.com/jameslamb)

Approvers:
  - Kyle Edwards (https://github.com/KyleFromNVIDIA)

URL: #1364

dependencies.yaml

@@ -190,16 +190,34 @@ dependencies:
         matrices:
           # kvikio should be added to the CUDA-version-specific matrices once there are wheels available
           # ref: https://github.com/rapidsai/kvikio/pull/369
-          - matrix: {cuda: "12.*"}
+          - matrix:
+              cuda: "12.*"
+              cuda_suffixed: "true"
             packages:
               - cudf-cu12==24.8.*,>=0.0.0a0
               - dask-cudf-cu12==24.8.*,>=0.0.0a0
               - ucx-py-cu12==0.39.*,>=0.0.0a0
-          - matrix: {cuda: "11.*"}
+          - matrix:
+              cuda: "12.*"
+              cuda_suffixed: "false"
+            packages:
+              - *cudf_conda
+              - *dask_cudf_conda
+              - *ucx_py_conda
+          - matrix:
+              cuda: "11.*"
+              cuda_suffixed: "true"
             packages:
               - cudf-cu11==24.8.*,>=0.0.0a0
               - dask-cudf-cu11==24.8.*,>=0.0.0a0
               - ucx-py-cu11==0.39.*,>=0.0.0a0
+          - matrix:
+              cuda: "11.*"
+              cuda_suffixed: "false"
+            packages:
+              - *cudf_conda
+              - *dask_cudf_conda
+              - *ucx_py_conda
           - matrix:
             packages:
               - *cudf_conda

pyproject.toml

@@ -134,6 +134,7 @@ filterwarnings = [
 build-backend = "setuptools.build_meta"
 dependencies-file = "dependencies.yaml"
 disable-cuda = true
+matrix-entry = "cuda_suffixed=true"
 
 [tool.setuptools]
 license-files = ["LICENSE"]