[IMPROVEMENT] Add wheel builds to cuxfilter

[AjayThorve]

Follow this guide to add wheels builds to cuxfilter.

• Transition CI to GHA from Jenkins: The wheel builds use Github Actions.
• Remove usage of versioneer: Various aspects of versioneer's operation and generated versions are incompatible with other parts of the Python ecosystem.
• Migrate as much logic as possible from setup.py to pyproject.toml
• Add wheels GHA workflows

cc @exactlyallan @bdice

edit: updated checklist as per suggestion

[bdice]

A couple notes:

1. You only need to use scikit-build if you have C++ built components. You can think of scikit-build as a bridge between Python build tools and CMake (for CUDA/C++ components). So you can skip that here.
2. I shared these links in Slack but figured they could be useful here too:

• If you need examples of PRs where the pyproject.toml changes happened for other packages, see this list: "Programming Language :: Python :: 3.10" kvikio#194 (comment)
• There's a series of PRs named "Stop using versioneer to manage versions" across repos: https://github.com/search?q=org%3Arapidsai+%22Stop+using+versioneer%22&type=pullrequests

Your best model to follow might be pure Python packages like dask-cudf because those are migrated but don't use scikit-build.

Also maybe there is a good opportunity for some cleanup of the Python code as a whole, I saw some bits while reviewing the build system like Makefile and record.txt that seem safe to remove.