util/chunk: optimize (*ListInDisk).GetChunk and add a fast row container reader (#45130)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #45130

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #45125

Problem Summary:

The existing reading method of RowContainer (GetChunk(...)) is not fast enough for dumping a lot of rows from disk (for the cursorFetch use case).

The existing Iterator4RowContainer is even slower, as it allocates a new chunk for each row 🤦.

This PR is extracted from #44730 (with a some refractor).

What is changed and how it works?

This PR pipelines the IO and CPU calculation, to make full use of the IO bandwidth. It should also help other features using rowContainer, as GetChunk is now much faster.

The performance of existing benchmark BenchmarkListInDisk_GetChunk increases from 2877471ns/op to 462864ns/op

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Timeline:

• 2023-07-10 06:05:59.920992605 +0000 UTC m=+312051.691331320: ☑️ agreed by xhebox.
• 2023-07-10 06:09:13.129212613 +0000 UTC m=+312244.899551326: ☑️ agreed by tiancaiamao.

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