ttl: add info schema cache and ttl table status table cache for ttl scheduler

[YangKeao]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #39466

Problem Summary:

To implement a ttl job scheduler, we'll need a local map for info schema and ttl table status, to map from a physical table id to related schema information and the information stored in the ttl table status

What is changed and how it works?

It does the following changes:

1. Refine the code structure. The sql generator and cache are split and placed in different directories. If we are using sql generator and cache from the manager, both placing them in one level and "reverse (about the folder hierarchy) dependency" is not suggested.
2. Move codes related with session into ttl/session, and add an interface of session pool into it (though there are some existing session pool, with the same definition here). I don't know whether it appropriate to add yet another session pool interface (but others are in extensions, br... pkg).
3. Add two struct: InfoSchemaCache and the TTLTableStatusCache. They are the local mirror of the info schema and mysql.tidb_ttl_table_status system table.

This PR relies on #39315. Please merge it before this one.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created: #39628.

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🔴 Bad News! [1] CI still failing after this pr merged.
These failed integration tests don't seem to be introduced by the current PR.

CI Name	Result	Duration	Compare with Parent commit
idc-jenkins-ci/integration-cdc-test	🔴 failed 1, success 39, total 40	19 min	Existing failure
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/common-test	🟢 all 11 tests passed	12 min	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/integration-common-test	🟢 all 17 tests passed	12 min	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/tics-test	🟢 all 1 tests passed	6 min 27 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/sqllogic-test-2	🟢 all 28 tests passed	5 min 32 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/integration-ddl-test	🟢 all 6 tests passed	5 min 2 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/sqllogic-test-1	🟢 all 26 tests passed	4 min 19 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/mybatis-test	🟢 all 1 tests passed	4 min 8 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/integration-compatibility-test	🟢 all 1 tests passed	3 min 35 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/plugin-test	🟢 build success, plugin test success	4min	Existing passed