txn: fix the ttlmanager and cleanup logic for 1pc and async commit (#23342)

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cherry-pick #23342 to release-5.0
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What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #23331

Problem Summary:
There are two problems:

• The left pessimistic locks are not cleaned up using 1pc protocol to commit, blocking other concurrent transactions on these keys.
• The ttlManager is not closed, if the max ts caculation error is reported using async commit or 1pc, thus the left pessimistic locks could not be resolved by the ddl backfill worker.

What is changed and how it works?

What's Changed:

1. Do cleanup if the error is reported when 1pc protocol is used.
2. Close the ttlManager if the execution result of twoPhaseCommitter is error.

How it Works:

Related changes

• Need to cherry-pick to the release branch

Check List

Tests

• Unit test

Side effects

Release note

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[ti-srebot]

/run-all-tests

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[youjiali1995]

/merge

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Commit hash: 77c0ec2

[cfzjywxk]

/merge

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/merge