Update the memory selection layout when there is a layout mismatch #5810

Job	Run time
git_checks	6s
format	29s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc8, mpich)	6m 50s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc9, mpich)	23m 5s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc10, mpich)	21m 13s
el8 (el8, icc, mpich)	26m 49s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, clang6, mpich)	6m 0s
macos (macos-13, xcode14_2, x64, shared, serial)	13m 55s
el8 (el8, oneapi, mpich)	24m 14s
CodeQL (cpp)	25m 11s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, clang10, mpich)	18m 58s
macos (macos-14, xcode15_4, arm64, shared, serial)	7m 44s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc8, ompi)	38m 0s
macos (macos-14, xcode15_4, arm64, static, serial)	4m 4s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc8, serial)	12m 2s
windows (win2019, shared, msmpi)	19m 7s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, clang6, ompi)	28m 55s
windows (win2022, shared, msmpi)	17m 21s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, clang6, serial)	10m 7s
docker (ubuntu-bionic)	7m 4s
windows (win2022, serial, windows-2022, vs2022)	12m 53s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc8, serial, static)	7m 29s
windows (win2022, static, serial, windows-2022, vs2022)	13m 0s
ubuntu (ubuntu22.04, rocm, serial, build_only)	3m 22s
ubuntu (ubuntu22.04, gcc11, mpich)	20m 55s
contract (examples)	2m 0s
contract (lammps)	4m 11s
contract (tau)	10m 40s
build_and_test	1s
	6h 25m 45s

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