Update the memory selection layout when there is a layout mismatch #5800

Job	Run time
git_checks	6s
format	27s
el8 (el8, icc, mpich)	23m 2s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc8, mpich)	5m 14s
el8 (el8, oneapi, mpich)	22m 1s
CodeQL (cpp)	19m 46s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc9, mpich)	19m 18s
docker (ubuntu-bionic)	7m 15s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc10, mpich)	18m 1s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, clang6, mpich)	5m 9s
macos (macos-13, xcode14_2, x64, shared, serial)	8m 39s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, clang10, mpich)	15m 4s
windows (win2019, shared, msmpi)	19m 2s
macos (macos-14, xcode15_4, arm64, shared, serial)	7m 49s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc8, ompi)	33m 57s
windows (win2022, shared, msmpi)	17m 12s
macos (macos-14, xcode15_4, arm64, static, serial)	4m 25s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc8, serial)	9m 47s
windows (win2022, serial, windows-2022, vs2022)	12m 28s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, clang6, ompi)	25m 31s
windows (win2022, static, serial, windows-2022, vs2022)	14m 22s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, clang6, serial)	8m 28s
ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc8, serial, static)	6m 23s
ubuntu (ubuntu22.04, rocm, serial, build_only)	2m 37s
ubuntu (ubuntu22.04, gcc11, mpich)	17m 23s
contract (examples)	2m 41s
contract (lammps)	4m 22s
contract (tau)	10m 46s
build_and_test	1s
	5h 41m 16s

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