fix(graphql): move graphql to dependencies

[dyladan]

Fixes #802

Move graphql to dependencies in order to avoid a compilation failure during lib check (instrumentation imports graphql when it is not installed). This is affecting all users of the metapackage which installs the instrumentation but does not install graphql which it depends on.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #850 (e8c31c0) into main (08b5615) will decrease coverage by 0.61%.
The diff coverage is n/a.

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- Coverage   95.29%   94.68%   -0.62%     
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  Files          10       17       +7     
  Lines         701     1128     +427     
  Branches      142      229      +87     
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+ Hits          668     1068     +400     
- Misses         33       60      +27     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
.../opentelemetry-instrumentation-graphql/src/enum.ts	100.00% <0.00%> (ø)
...nstrumentation-graphql/src/enums/AttributeNames.ts	100.00% <0.00%> (ø)
...try-instrumentation-graphql/src/instrumentation.ts	91.61% <0.00%> (ø)
...opentelemetry-instrumentation-graphql/src/types.ts	100.00% <0.00%> (ø)
...tapackages/auto-instrumentations-node/src/utils.ts	96.77% <0.00%> (ø)
...opentelemetry-instrumentation-graphql/src/utils.ts	93.40% <0.00%> (ø)
...entelemetry-instrumentation-graphql/src/symbols.ts	100.00% <0.00%> (ø)