btl tcp: Add workaround for "dropped connection" issue

Work around a race condition in the TCP BTL's proc setup code.
The Cisco MTT results have been failing on TCP tests due to a
"dropped connection" message some percentage of the time.
Some digging shows that the issue happens in a combination of
multiple NICs and multiple threads.  The race is detailed in
#3035 (comment).

This patch doesn't fix the race, but avoids it by forcing
the MPI layer to complete all calls to add_procs across the
entire job before any process leaves MPI_INIT.  It also
reduces the scalability of the TCP BTL by increasing start-up
time, but better than hanging.

The long term fix is to do all endpoint setup in the first
call to add_procs for a given remote proc, removing the
race.  THis patch is a work around until that patch can
be developed.

Signed-off-by: Brian Barrett <bbarrett@amazon.com>

opal/mca/btl/tcp/btl_tcp_component.c

@@ -1300,6 +1300,24 @@ mca_btl_base_module_t** mca_btl_tcp_component_init(int *num_btl_modules,
         }
     }
 
+    /* Avoid a race in wire-up when using threads (progess or user)
+       and multiple BTL modules.  The details of the race are in
+       https://github.com/open-mpi/ompi/issues/3035#issuecomment-429500032,
+       but the summary is that the lookup code in
+       component_recv_handler() below assumes that add_procs() is
+       atomic across all active TCP BTL modules, but in multi-threaded
+       code, that isn't guaranteed, because the locking is inside
+       add_procs(), and add_procs() is called once per module.  This
+       isn't a proper fix, but will solve the "dropped connection"
+       problem until we can come up with a more complete fix to how we
+       initialize procs, endpoints, and modules in the TCP BTL. */
+    if (mca_btl_tcp_component.tcp_num_btls > 1 &&
+        (enable_mpi_threads || 0 < mca_btl_tcp_progress_thread_trigger)) {
+        for( i = 0; i < mca_btl_tcp_component.tcp_num_btls; i++) {
+            mca_btl_tcp_component.tcp_btls[i]->super.btl_flags |= MCA_BTL_FLAGS_SINGLE_ADD_PROCS;
+        }
+    }
+
 #if OPAL_CUDA_SUPPORT
     mca_common_cuda_stage_one_init();
 #endif /* OPAL_CUDA_SUPPORT */