build: fix --shared-sqlite builds

[aduh95]

I'm not very familiar with the build system, I tried copying the ZLib config files, but I'm not sure if it all fits together.

[nodejs-github-bot]

Review requested:

• @nodejs/gyp
• @nodejs/security-wg

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[richardlau]

If you introduce this, something would need to toggle the value.

If configured with --shared-sqlite, this gyp file isn't included anyway (I verified that as part of #55409 (you can remove deps/sqlite if using --shared-sqlite and the build still works)) as per

node/node.gypi

Lines 231 to 233 in 6190bbc

	[ 'node_shared_sqlite=="false"', {
	'dependencies': [ 'deps/sqlite/sqlite.gyp:sqlite' ],
	}],

-- if needed perhaps any addition defines should be set there?

[aduh95]

Hum yeah that makes sense. For reference, I'm opening this because I'm getting undefined reference to sqlite3session_patchset'when working on https://github.com/NixOS/nixpkgs/pull/357699, and Nix is using--shared-sqlite`