build: conditionally compile bundled sqlite

Only compile the bundled sqlite in `deps/sqlite` if Node.js was not
configured with `--shared-sqlite`.

`node.gypi` is already correctly adding the sqlite dependency if
`node_shared_sqlite=="false"` so the unconditional entries in `node.gyp`
are not necessary.

node.gyp

@@ -849,7 +849,6 @@
       'dependencies': [
         'deps/googletest/googletest.gyp:gtest_prod',
         'deps/histogram/histogram.gyp:histogram',
-        'deps/sqlite/sqlite.gyp:sqlite',
         'deps/simdjson/simdjson.gyp:simdjson',
         'deps/simdutf/simdutf.gyp:simdutf',
         'deps/ada/ada.gyp:ada',
@@ -1038,7 +1037,6 @@
       'dependencies': [
         '<(node_lib_target_name)',
         'deps/histogram/histogram.gyp:histogram',
-        'deps/sqlite/sqlite.gyp:sqlite',
       ],
 
       'includes': [
@@ -1050,7 +1048,6 @@
         'deps/v8/include',
         'deps/cares/include',
         'deps/uv/include',
-        'deps/sqlite',
         'test/cctest',
       ],
 
@@ -1083,7 +1080,6 @@
       'dependencies': [
         '<(node_lib_target_name)',
         'deps/histogram/histogram.gyp:histogram',
-        'deps/sqlite/sqlite.gyp:sqlite',
         'deps/uvwasi/uvwasi.gyp:uvwasi',
       ],
       'includes': [
@@ -1094,7 +1090,6 @@
         'tools/msvs/genfiles',
         'deps/v8/include',
         'deps/cares/include',
-        'deps/sqlite',
         'deps/uv/include',
         'deps/uvwasi/include',
         'test/cctest',
@@ -1129,7 +1124,6 @@
         '<(node_lib_target_name)',
         'deps/googletest/googletest.gyp:gtest_prod',
         'deps/histogram/histogram.gyp:histogram',
-        'deps/sqlite/sqlite.gyp:sqlite',
         'deps/uvwasi/uvwasi.gyp:uvwasi',
         'deps/ada/ada.gyp:ada',
         'deps/nbytes/nbytes.gyp:nbytes',
@@ -1142,7 +1136,6 @@
         'tools/msvs/genfiles',
         'deps/v8/include',
         'deps/cares/include',
-        'deps/sqlite',
         'deps/uv/include',
         'deps/uvwasi/include',
         'test/cctest',
@@ -1179,7 +1172,6 @@
         'deps/googletest/googletest.gyp:gtest',
         'deps/googletest/googletest.gyp:gtest_main',
         'deps/histogram/histogram.gyp:histogram',
-        'deps/sqlite/sqlite.gyp:sqlite',
         'deps/simdjson/simdjson.gyp:simdjson',
         'deps/simdutf/simdutf.gyp:simdutf',
         'deps/ada/ada.gyp:ada',
@@ -1196,7 +1188,6 @@
         'deps/v8/include',
         'deps/cares/include',
         'deps/uv/include',
-        'deps/sqlite',
         'test/cctest',
       ],
 
@@ -1261,7 +1252,6 @@
       'dependencies': [
         '<(node_lib_target_name)',
         'deps/histogram/histogram.gyp:histogram',
-        'deps/sqlite/sqlite.gyp:sqlite',
         'deps/ada/ada.gyp:ada',
         'deps/nbytes/nbytes.gyp:nbytes',
       ],
@@ -1277,7 +1267,6 @@
         'deps/v8/include',
         'deps/cares/include',
         'deps/uv/include',
-        'deps/sqlite',
         'test/embedding',
       ],
 
@@ -1377,7 +1366,6 @@
       'dependencies': [
         '<(node_lib_target_name)',
         'deps/histogram/histogram.gyp:histogram',
-        'deps/sqlite/sqlite.gyp:sqlite',
         'deps/ada/ada.gyp:ada',
         'deps/nbytes/nbytes.gyp:nbytes',
         'deps/simdjson/simdjson.gyp:simdjson',
@@ -1394,7 +1382,6 @@
         'deps/v8/include',
         'deps/cares/include',
         'deps/uv/include',
-        'deps/sqlite',
       ],
 
       'defines': [ 'NODE_WANT_INTERNALS=1' ],