Handle situation when remote connection is lost

[DonJayamanne]

Fixes #10568
Fixes #9828

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Merging #11086 (5d92d40) into main (7d0dab5) will decrease coverage by 0%.
The diff coverage is 70%.

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  Lines      33730    33860   +130     
  Branches    5500     5524    +24     
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+ Hits       21322    21394    +72     
- Misses     10376    10411    +35     
- Partials    2032     2055    +23     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
src/kernels/kernelAutoReConnectMonitor.ts	67% <67%> (ø)
src/kernels/kernelAutoReConnectFailedMonitor.ts	68% <68%> (ø)
src/platform/common/utils/localize.ts	76% <75%> (-1%)	⬇️
src/kernels/common/baseJupyterSession.ts	80% <80%> (-1%)	⬇️
src/kernels/serviceRegistry.node.ts	95% <100%> (+<1%)	⬆️
src/platform/errors/errorUtils.ts	71% <100%> (-1%)	⬇️
src/platform/common/cancellation.ts	59% <0%> (-13%)	⬇️
src/kernels/raw/session/rawJupyterSession.node.ts	81% <0%> (-3%)	⬇️
src/kernels/jupyter/baseKernelConnectionWrapper.ts	35% <0%> (-3%)	⬇️
src/kernels/jupyter/jupyterKernelService.node.ts	74% <0%> (-2%)	⬇️
... and 7 more