[Build] fix: missing nvcc flags when compiling with unittests (#19308)

When configured using the following CMake ops Clion is not able to
configure due to checking with `nvcc ... --dryrun tmp.cu`:
```
cmake -G Ninja -Donnxruntime_USE_TENSORRT="ON" -Donnxruntime_USE_CUDA="ON" -Donnxruntime_USE_CUDA_NHWC_OPS="ON" -DCMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES="native" -Donnxruntime_NVCC_THREADS=1 -Donnxruntime_ENABLE_NVTX_PROFILE="ON" -Donnxruntime_USE_TENSORRT_BUILTIN_PARSER="ON" -DCMAKE_CUDA_COMPILER_LAUNCHER="ccache" -Donnxruntime_BUILD_UNIT_TESTS="ON" -Donnxruntime_USE_TRITON_KERNEL=OFF -Donnxruntime_USE_FLASH_ATTENTION=OFF
```
Without building the unittests everything works fine. I believe my
changes only follow the logic that is actually desired. If
`NVCC_HAS_STRICT_ALIASING` is set to false it should not be possible to
add this as a CUDA flag. Same is true for `HAS_NOERROR` as seen in
`adjust_global_compile_flags.cmake`

cmake/CMakeLists.txt

@@ -985,9 +985,12 @@ function(onnxruntime_set_compile_flags target_name)
       foreach(FLAG ${ORT_WARNING_FLAGS})
         target_compile_options(${target_name} PRIVATE "$<$<COMPILE_LANGUAGE:CUDA>:SHELL:--compiler-options ${FLAG}>")
       endforeach()
-      if ((NVCC_HAS_STRICT_ALIASING AND "${target_name}" MATCHES "cuda") OR (HAS_STRICT_ALIASING AND NOT "${target_name}" MATCHES "cuda"))
+      if (NVCC_HAS_STRICT_ALIASING AND "${target_name}" MATCHES "cuda")
         target_compile_options(${target_name} PRIVATE "$<$<COMPILE_LANGUAGE:CUDA>:-Wno-strict-aliasing>")
       endif()
+      if (HAS_STRICT_ALIASING AND NOT "${target_name}" MATCHES "cuda")
+          target_compile_options(${target_name} PRIVATE "$<$<COMPILE_LANGUAGE:CXX>:-Wno-strict-aliasing>")
+      endif()
     endif()
     if (onnxruntime_USE_ROCM)
       # flags are detected with CXX language mode, some flags are not supported with hipclang

cmake/onnxruntime_unittests.cmake

@@ -111,7 +111,9 @@ function(AddTest)
     target_compile_options(${_UT_TARGET} PRIVATE ${DISABLED_WARNINGS_FOR_TVM})
     target_compile_options(${_UT_TARGET} PRIVATE "$<$<COMPILE_LANGUAGE:CUDA>:SHELL:--compiler-options -Wno-error=sign-compare>"
             "$<$<NOT:$<COMPILE_LANGUAGE:CUDA>>:-Wno-error=sign-compare>")
-    target_compile_options(${_UT_TARGET} PRIVATE "-Wno-error=uninitialized")
+    if (${HAS_NOERROR})
+      target_compile_options(${_UT_TARGET} PRIVATE "$<$<COMPILE_LANGUAGE:CXX>:-Wno-error=uninitialized>")
+    endif()
   endif()
 
   set(TEST_ARGS ${_UT_TEST_ARGS})