🌱Update controller-runtime to v0.19.3

[m-messiah]

What this PR does / why we need it:

The PR bumps controller-runtime dependency to https://github.com/kubernetes-sigs/controller-runtime/releases/tag/v0.19.3 with timeouts in leaderelection and inotify-agnostic certwatcher

/area dependency

[vincepri]

/lgtm
/assign @fabriziopandini @chrischdi

[k8s-ci-robot]

LGTM label has been added.

Git tree hash: 1436d5fc3ae54a07e6c7287c6c2f2ed88865cad8

[fabriziopandini]

/lgtm
/approve

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[fabriziopandini]

/cherry-pick release-1.9

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@fabriziopandini: new pull request created: #11527

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/cherry-pick release-1.9

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[sbueringer]

Same here:

I'll bring this up elsewhere (we don't have to discuss here) but just for reference the change in CR (kubernetes-sigs/controller-runtime#3035) leads to up to 10 seconds additional webhook downtime after certificate rotation
#11525 (comment)