[kafka-consumer] Add support for setting fetch message max bytes

[sappusaketh]

Which problem is this PR solving?

• PR [kafka-producer] Support setting max message size #5263 added support for setting max message size a producer can send that solved the issue on collector end now we are seeing our consumer getting stuck consuming messages larger that 1MB(default fetch max message bytes) so adding an option to set this value via flags

Description of the changes

• adding an option to set fetch max message bytes value via flags

How was this change tested?

• Tested against our dev jaeger where we have spans larger than 1 MB

Checklist

• I have read https://github.com/jaegertracing/jaeger/blob/master/CONTRIBUTING_GUIDELINES.md
• I have signed all commits
• I have added unit tests for the new functionality
• I have run lint and test steps successfully
  • for jaeger: make lint test
  • for jaeger-ui: yarn lint and yarn test

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All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 95.06%. Comparing base (b82c806) to head (21782c4).

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[yurishkuro]

thanks