avoid deadlock in AMQPUrlReceiver hopefully

[nlevitt]

Use interruptible locking in the one spot where it's needed to avoid this deadlock.

"AMQPUrlReceiver-starter-restarter" prio=10 tid=0x00007f62bd0dc000 nid=0x27b5 waiting for monitor entry [0x00007f62ec319000]
   java.lang.Thread.State: BLOCKED (on object monitor)
        at org.archive.crawler.frontier.AMQPUrlReceiver$StarterRestarter.run(AMQPUrlReceiver.java:119)
        - waiting to lock <0x00000000cbcecb98> (a org.archive.crawler.frontier.AMQPUrlReceiver)

"org.archive.crawler.frontier.BdbFrontier@4c2d0c64.managerThread" prio=10 tid=0x00007f62bd471000 nid=0x27ae in Object.wait() [0x00007f62adbda000]
   java.lang.Thread.State: WAITING (on object monitor)
        at java.lang.Object.wait(Native Method)
        - waiting on <0x00000000cc491e00> (a org.archive.crawler.frontier.AMQPUrlReceiver$StarterRestarter)
        at java.lang.Thread.join(Thread.java:1281)
        - locked <0x00000000cc491e00> (a org.archive.crawler.frontier.AMQPUrlReceiver$StarterRestarter)
        at java.lang.Thread.join(Thread.java:1355)
        at org.archive.crawler.frontier.AMQPUrlReceiver.stop(AMQPUrlReceiver.java:164)
        - locked <0x00000000cbcecb98> (a org.archive.crawler.frontier.AMQPUrlReceiver)
        at org.springframework.context.support.DefaultLifecycleProcessor.doStop(DefaultLifecycleProcessor.java:236)
        at org.springframework.context.support.DefaultLifecycleProcessor.doStop(DefaultLifecycleProcessor.java:213)
        at org.springframework.context.support.DefaultLifecycleProcessor.doStop(DefaultLifecycleProcessor.java:213)
        at org.springframework.context.support.DefaultLifecycleProcessor.access$2(DefaultLifecycleProcessor.java:206)
        at org.springframework.context.support.DefaultLifecycleProcessor$LifecycleGroup.stop(DefaultLifecycleProcessor.java:352)
        at org.springframework.context.support.DefaultLifecycleProcessor.stopBeans(DefaultLifecycleProcessor.java:195)
        at org.springframework.context.support.DefaultLifecycleProcessor.stop(DefaultLifecycleProcessor.java:103)
        at org.springframework.context.support.AbstractApplicationContext.stop(AbstractApplicationContext.java:1241)
        at org.archive.crawler.framework.CrawlController.completeStop(CrawlController.java:392)
        at org.archive.crawler.framework.CrawlController.noteFrontierState(CrawlController.java:663)
        at org.archive.crawler.frontier.AbstractFrontier.reachedState(AbstractFrontier.java:442)
        at org.archive.crawler.frontier.AbstractFrontier.managementTasks(AbstractFrontier.java:399)
        at org.archive.crawler.frontier.AbstractFrontier$1.run(AbstractFrontier.java:316)