[NET-5399] Improve token fetching performance for endpoints controlle…

…r. (#2940)

Improve token fetching performance for endpoints controller.

Prior to this change, the endpoints controller would list all ACL tokens in a
namespace when a service instance is being deleted. This commit improves the
performance by querying only the necessary subset of tokens by service-identity
/ service-name.

.changelog/2910.txt

@@ -0,0 +1,3 @@
+```release-note:improvement
+control-plane: Improve performance for pod deletions by reducing the number of fetched tokens.
+```

acceptance/go.mod

@@ -5,12 +5,12 @@ go 1.19
 require (
 	github.com/gruntwork-io/terratest v0.31.2
 	github.com/hashicorp/consul-k8s/control-plane v0.0.0-20221117191905-0b1cc2b631e3
-	github.com/hashicorp/consul/api v1.17.0
-	github.com/hashicorp/consul/sdk v0.13.0
+	github.com/hashicorp/consul/api v1.10.1-0.20230906155245-56917eb4c968
+	github.com/hashicorp/consul/sdk v0.14.1
 	github.com/hashicorp/go-uuid v1.0.3
 	github.com/hashicorp/go-version v1.6.0
 	github.com/hashicorp/vault/api v1.2.0
-	github.com/stretchr/testify v1.7.2
+	github.com/stretchr/testify v1.8.3
 	gopkg.in/yaml.v2 v2.4.0
 	k8s.io/api v0.22.2
 	k8s.io/apimachinery v0.22.2
@@ -25,25 +25,25 @@ require (
 	github.com/boombuler/barcode v1.0.1-0.20190219062509-6c824513bacc // indirect
 	github.com/cenkalti/backoff/v3 v3.0.0 // indirect
 	github.com/cpuguy83/go-md2man/v2 v2.0.0 // indirect
-	github.com/davecgh/go-spew v1.1.1 // indirect
+	github.com/davecgh/go-spew v1.1.2-0.20180830191138-d8f796af33cc // indirect
 	github.com/evanphx/json-patch v5.6.0+incompatible // indirect
-	github.com/fatih/color v1.13.0 // indirect
+	github.com/fatih/color v1.14.1 // indirect
 	github.com/ghodss/yaml v1.0.0 // indirect
 	github.com/go-errors/errors v1.0.2-0.20180813162953-d98b870cc4e0 // indirect
 	github.com/go-logr/logr v0.4.0 // indirect
 	github.com/go-sql-driver/mysql v1.5.0 // indirect
 	github.com/gogo/protobuf v1.3.2 // indirect
 	github.com/golang/protobuf v1.5.2 // indirect
 	github.com/golang/snappy v0.0.1 // indirect
-	github.com/google/go-cmp v0.5.7 // indirect
+	github.com/google/go-cmp v0.5.9 // indirect
 	github.com/google/gofuzz v1.1.0 // indirect
 	github.com/google/uuid v1.1.2 // indirect
 	github.com/googleapis/gnostic v0.5.5 // indirect
 	github.com/gruntwork-io/gruntwork-cli v0.7.0 // indirect
 	github.com/hashicorp/errwrap v1.1.0 // indirect
 	github.com/hashicorp/go-cleanhttp v0.5.2 // indirect
-	github.com/hashicorp/go-hclog v1.2.2 // indirect
-	github.com/hashicorp/go-immutable-radix v1.3.0 // indirect
+	github.com/hashicorp/go-hclog v1.5.0 // indirect
+	github.com/hashicorp/go-immutable-radix v1.3.1 // indirect
 	github.com/hashicorp/go-multierror v1.1.1 // indirect
 	github.com/hashicorp/go-plugin v1.0.1 // indirect
 	github.com/hashicorp/go-retryablehttp v0.6.6 // indirect
@@ -59,12 +59,12 @@ require (
 	github.com/imdario/mergo v0.3.12 // indirect
 	github.com/jmespath/go-jmespath v0.3.0 // indirect
 	github.com/json-iterator/go v1.1.12 // indirect
-	github.com/mattn/go-colorable v0.1.12 // indirect
-	github.com/mattn/go-isatty v0.0.14 // indirect
+	github.com/mattn/go-colorable v0.1.13 // indirect
+	github.com/mattn/go-isatty v0.0.17 // indirect
 	github.com/mitchellh/copystructure v1.0.0 // indirect
 	github.com/mitchellh/go-homedir v1.1.0 // indirect
 	github.com/mitchellh/go-testing-interface v1.14.0 // indirect
-	github.com/mitchellh/mapstructure v1.4.2 // indirect
+	github.com/mitchellh/mapstructure v1.5.0 // indirect
 	github.com/mitchellh/reflectwalk v1.0.0 // indirect
 	github.com/moby/spdystream v0.2.0 // indirect
 	github.com/modern-go/concurrent v0.0.0-20180306012644-bacd9c7ef1dd // indirect
@@ -74,7 +74,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/onsi/gomega v1.15.0 // indirect
 	github.com/pierrec/lz4 v2.5.2+incompatible // indirect
 	github.com/pkg/errors v0.9.1 // indirect
-	github.com/pmezard/go-difflib v1.0.0 // indirect
+	github.com/pmezard/go-difflib v1.0.1-0.20181226105442-5d4384ee4fb2 // indirect
 	github.com/pquerna/otp v1.2.0 // indirect
 	github.com/russross/blackfriday/v2 v2.0.1 // indirect
 	github.com/ryanuber/go-glob v1.0.0 // indirect
@@ -83,6 +83,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/urfave/cli v1.22.2 // indirect
 	go.uber.org/atomic v1.7.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/crypto v0.11.0 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/exp v0.0.0-20230321023759-10a507213a29 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/net v0.13.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/oauth2 v0.0.0-20211104180415-d3ed0bb246c8 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/sys v0.10.0 // indirect