Upgrade terraform to Kubernetes 1.21.

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What this PR does / Why we need it: First step of upgrading Kubernetes support to 1.21.

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Work on #2311

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Build Id: 17740102-551f-451e-8cbb-10cc8eba2d4b

The following development artifacts have been built, and will exist for the next 30 days:

• image: gcr.io/agones-images/agones-controller:1.19.0-8dfe05b
• image: gcr.io/agones-images/agones-ping:1.19.0-8dfe05b
• Linux C++ SDK (build): agonessdk-1.19.0-8dfe05b-linux-arch_64.tar.gz
• SDK Server: agonessdk-server-1.19.0-8dfe05b.zip

A preview of the website (the last 30 builds are retained):

• https://8dfe05b-dot-preview-dot-agones-images.appspot.com/

To install this version:

• git fetch https://github.com/googleforgames/agones.git pull/2326/head:pr_2326 && git checkout pr_2326
• helm install ./install/helm/agones --namespace agones-system --name agones --set agones.image.tag=1.19.0-8dfe05b