[ts/build_ts_refs] add support for --clean flag

[spalger]

Does a tiny bit of refactoring in the dev/typescript directory to implement a --clean flag for node scripts/build_ts_refs which clears out the outDir for each TS project referenced from the root tsconfig.refs.json file.

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Pinging @elastic/kibana-operations (Team:Operations)

[kibanamachine]

💚 Build Succeeded

• continuous-integration/kibana-ci/pull-request
• Commit: 5715246

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[mistic]

LGTM

[kibanamachine]

Backport result

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Backporting to 7.x:
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View pull request: https://github.com/elastic/kibana/pull/91078