feat: add fast path for cross join to optimize tpcds q23 (~50x)

[xudong963]

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Summary

Note: tpcds 1GB. Local machine M1 mac, 8c 32GB

This PR adds a fast path for cross join when build side only has a row, which matches tpcds q23's pattern(build side is from a max/sum agg).

By the fast path, we can avoid memory reallocation. Then reduce cache miss and improve the ability of SIMD for next operators.

Before: 26s

Now: 0.4s

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• Breaking Change (fix or feature that could cause existing functionality not to work as expected)
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