DAOS-13964 build: update libfabric to 1.18.1 and apply prov/tcp patches

[soumagne]

Patches are required to ensure thread safety of prov/tcp

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[github-actions]

Bug-tracker data:
Ticket title is 'ofi+tcp having issues with dd workload over dfuse (no IL)'
Status is 'Awaiting Verification'
Labels: '2.4_in_review,required_for_ga,triaged'
Job should run at elevated priority (3)
https://daosio.atlassian.net/browse/DAOS-13964

[daosbuild1]

LGTM. No errors found by checkpatch.

[daosbuild1]

Test stage Functional Hardware Medium Verbs Provider completed with status FAILURE. https://build.hpdd.intel.com//job/daos-stack/job/daos/view/change-requests/job/PR-12704/1/execution/node/1241/log

[daltonbohning]

Probably can remove the "and apply prov/tcp patches" part, right?

[mchaarawi]

did you want to add those spec file changes that you mentioned are needed for testing ofi with pr-repos tag?

[soumagne]

@daltonbohning it does apply the patches in build.config, maybe you're thinking about different patches ?

[soumagne]

@mchaarawi well I'll leave that to Brian since he was working on the issue, @daltonbohning added new PR tags also that he is working on in another PR.

[daltonbohning]

apply prov/tcp patches" part, right

Woops. Was thinking about the other testing PR :)

[mchaarawi]

please create 2.4 backport