ci: speed up lint job

[julienrbrt]

Description

Closes: #16240

Should speed up the run from ≃ 15min to some seconds-2min depending on the PR.
When we bump or change golangci-lint config, it will run on the whole codebase.

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[tac0turtle]

just need to make sure when we deprecate something that the author or reviewer runs the long version locally

[julienrbrt]

just need to make sure when we deprecate something that the author or reviewer runs the long version locally

It seems then that maybe it is then beneficial to keep running it all the time in CI. 🤔
There is probably moments where we will forget it and then will end up again with PRs with unrelated changes just to fix the linting.

[julienrbrt]

I tried to use a bigger runner, but it didn't work. Once we figure out how to use bigger runner, we can revert this and use the bigger runner instead.