[Feature][JDBC Sink] Add DM upsert support #12945

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changes	2m 9s
Code style	33s
Dead links	3m 21s
License header	1m 33s
Sanity check results	1s
updated-modules-integration-test-part-2 (8, ubuntu-latest)	1h 2m 24s
updated-modules-integration-test-part-2 (11, ubuntu-latest)	48m 20s
Dependency licenses	0s
unit-test (8, ubuntu-latest)	7m 1s
unit-test (8, windows-latest)	14m 55s
unit-test (11, ubuntu-latest)	7m 21s
unit-test (11, windows-latest)	9m 49s
updated-modules-integration-test-part-4 (8, ubuntu-latest)	22m 36s
updated-modules-integration-test-part-4 (11, ubuntu-latest)	18m 27s
updated-modules-integration-test-part-1 (8, ubuntu-latest)	16m 2s
updated-modules-integration-test-part-1 (11, ubuntu-latest)	12m 40s
all-connectors-it-1	0s
engine-v2-it	0s
transform-v2-it-part-1	0s
transform-v2-it-part-2	0s
updated-modules-integration-test-part-3 (8, ubuntu-latest)	22m 33s
updated-modules-integration-test-part-3 (11, ubuntu-latest)	22m 16s
all-connectors-it-2	0s
all-connectors-it-3	0s
all-connectors-it-4	0s
all-connectors-it-6	0s
all-connectors-it-5	0s
all-connectors-it-7	0s
jdbc-connectors-it-part-1	0s
jdbc-connectors-it-part-2	0s
jdbc-connectors-it-part-3	0s
kafka-connector-it	0s
rocketmq-connector-it	0s
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