[3.0] Add router fail fast option

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Codecov Report

Merging #9388 (dfa5d58) into 3.0 (78fd454) will decrease coverage by 0.02%.
The diff coverage is 61.53%.

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##                3.0    #9388      +/-   ##
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- Coverage     65.28%   65.26%   -0.03%     
- Complexity      342      343       +1     
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  Files          1202     1202              
  Lines         51878    51939      +61     
  Branches       7729     7736       +7     
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+ Hits          33870    33898      +28     
- Misses        14391    14419      +28     
- Partials       3617     3622       +5     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
...java/org/apache/dubbo/rpc/cluster/RouterChain.java	69.40% <50.00%> (-0.30%)	⬇️
...e/dubbo/registry/integration/DynamicDirectory.java	65.13% <80.00%> (-0.29%)	⬇️
...bbo/rpc/proxy/javassist/JavassistProxyFactory.java	26.92% <0.00%> (-73.08%)	⬇️
...bo/rpc/cluster/support/FailbackClusterInvoker.java	59.37% <0.00%> (-14.07%)	⬇️
.../org/apache/dubbo/rpc/protocol/tri/WriteQueue.java	87.50% <0.00%> (-6.25%)	⬇️
...bbo/common/resource/GlobalResourcesRepository.java	70.90% <0.00%> (-1.82%)	⬇️
...java/org/apache/dubbo/common/utils/ClassUtils.java	79.06% <0.00%> (-1.82%)	⬇️
...exchange/support/header/HeaderExchangeHandler.java	66.37% <0.00%> (-1.77%)	⬇️
...pache/dubbo/registry/support/AbstractRegistry.java	75.17% <0.00%> (-1.42%)	⬇️
...n/java/org/apache/dubbo/common/utils/NetUtils.java	69.03% <0.00%> (-0.33%)	⬇️
... and 13 more

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