Add destroy_gpu_instance() function new parameter need_wait about it will wait for all devices to be idle before destroy

[whyb]

书上说，须在销毁设备之前之前调用vkDeviceWaitIdle()，以等待所有设备可能存在的未完成的任何工作。

为了保持向前兼容性，所以默认参数设计成默认不启用。

NCNN_EXPORT void destroy_gpu_instance(int need_wait = 0);

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[whyb]

@nihui Updated. Delete the parameter need_wait of the destroy_gpu_instance() function.

Before:

NCNN_EXPORT void destroy_gpu_instance(int need_wait = 0);

After:

NCNN_EXPORT void destroy_gpu_instance();

[nihui]

Thanks for your contribution !