Upgrade docker

[joe-kimmel-vmw]

Upgrades docker version (should close #2370 after merging)

Description

Turns out Cloud Native Buildpacks, downstream of yall, would really like to upgrade our docker version, but that's goingt o be easier if you-all do it too. I think this is basically because golang likes to pretend we all work in a monorepo of a certain larGe co. where all deps get bumped at once?

Note - I want to make this PR,- there's still 2 unit tests failing locally that seem unrelated (one of them wants GCP creds? and one of them I can't figure out why it's failing), anyways I want to see how much of the unit test suite passes in CI and whether there's other tests that need to be fixed in integration land.

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Release Notes

bumps docker to v23 and updates many other libraries as well.

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