Make NodeConnectionsService#connectToNodes deterministic

Today the `CoordinatorTests` test suite is not totally deterministic
because its behaviour depends on the iteration order of the JDK's
unordered collections which are not under the control of our test seed.

This commit makes `NodeConnectionsService#connectToNodes` iterate
through the nodes using `DiscoveryNodes#mastersFirstStream`, which is
made deterministic by elastic#94948. It's an ugly hack to do some extra work in
production just for the sake of tests, but we're only sorting at most a
few hundred elements here so it's not a huge deal.

Relates elastic#94946

server/src/main/java/org/elasticsearch/cluster/NodeConnectionsService.java

@@ -30,6 +30,7 @@
 import java.util.ArrayList;
 import java.util.HashMap;
 import java.util.HashSet;
+import java.util.Iterator;
 import java.util.List;
 import java.util.Map;
 import java.util.Set;
@@ -99,7 +100,9 @@ public void connectToNodes(DiscoveryNodes discoveryNodes, Runnable onCompletion)
         final List<Runnable> runnables = new ArrayList<>(discoveryNodes.getSize());
         try (var refs = new RefCountingRunnable(onCompletion)) {
             synchronized (mutex) {
-                for (final DiscoveryNode discoveryNode : discoveryNodes) {
+                // Ugly hack: when https://github.com/elastic/elasticsearch/issues/94946 is fixed, just iterate over discoveryNodes here
+                for (final Iterator<DiscoveryNode> iterator = discoveryNodes.mastersFirstStream().iterator(); iterator.hasNext();) {
+                    final DiscoveryNode discoveryNode = iterator.next();
                     ConnectionTarget connectionTarget = targetsByNode.get(discoveryNode);
                     final boolean isNewNode = connectionTarget == null;
                     if (isNewNode) {