Is it possible to let volar only parse vue files that are opened in vsc editor?

[JieamI]

I am working on a large Vue project with hybrid mode enabled.
With Process Explorer, I found that the Vue plugin consumes up to 4GB of memory when I am waiting for IntelliSense. I had to set the maxTsServerMemory of the TypeScript server to 4096, or the plugin might crash.
I also analyzed it with Volar Lab and found that some Vue files may consume a lot of memory, but it is not convenient to exclude those Vue files in tsconfig.json, as other people would be working on those files.