Support for new mongoose middleware types

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Mongoose has some new middleware types for both document and query:
https://mongoosejs.com/docs/middleware.html

New document middleware types:

• deleteOne
• updateOne
• remove

New query middleware types:

• deleteMany
• deleteOne
• findOneAndDelete
• updateOne
• updateMany

Most of these are basically aliases for existing middleware types, but there need to be hooks for them in historical.

Since some of the middleware types now exist for both document and query (for example updateOne and remove), there are some naming conflicts.
To fully support all kinds of middleware types, there are options for which kind each is for:
https://mongoosejs.com/docs/middleware.html#naming

The update and remove middleware types are deprecated, BUT they are still supported and very much in use, so they should still be included in historical.
https://mongoosejs.com/docs/deprecations.html