fix(server): avoid waiting for reconnect if reconnect disabled

Author: vkarpov15

lib/topologies/server.js

@@ -266,7 +266,12 @@ function configureWireProtocolHandler(self, ismaster) {
 function disconnectHandler(self, type, ns, cmd, options, callback) {
   // Topology is not connected, save the call in the provided store to be
   // Executed at some point when the handler deems it's reconnected
-  if (!self.s.pool.isConnected() && self.s.disconnectHandler != null && !options.monitoring) {
+  if (
+    !self.s.pool.isConnected() &&
+    self.s.options.reconnect &&
+    self.s.disconnectHandler != null &&
+    options.monitoring
+  ) {
     self.s.disconnectHandler.add(type, ns, cmd, options, callback);
     return true;
   }