Update Onnxruntime version and fix Windows compilerconfig

[royshil]

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[royshil]

@umireon we have a problem with onnxruntime 1.17.1 on linux where the .tgz file doesn't have the include/tensorrt_provider_factory.h
in v1.16.3 it did exist
i wonder if this file is no longer needed but TensorRT support still remains. it seems so because the .so file for tensorrt EP indeed exists in v1.17.1

[umireon]

@royshil SessionOptionsAppendExecutionProvider_TensorRT and SessionOptionsAppendExecutionProvider_TensorRT_V2 got to be included in onnxruntime_c_api.h so that we can safely remove the inclusion of include/tensorrt_provider_factory.h without any changes.

[royshil]

@umireon the build is good - do you want to test or approve? thanks!