Consolidate JS build tooling

[holic]

We currently have a wide mix of these, and we should probably consolidate:

• parcel, rollup, vite
• tsup, tsc, esbuild
• ts-node, tsx

If we're able to get rid of parcel in network package, we should remove engines from package.json (it's only there to fix parcel build issues).

[alvrs]

@roninjin10's context from discord:

Vite
Pro - 1 tool that can build everything
Pro - Doubles as a test config don't need to configure babel or anything like with jest
Pro - Should have less hacky than otherwise ways of configuring dev builds to work with hot reloading
Con - Bit of overkill

Tsup
Pro - Really fast even for prod build since it uses esbuild instead of rollup
Pro - Really simple to configure
Pro - Definitely much simpler tool than vite
Con - You are forced to use different tool once you need to bundle an actual website or non typescript or struggle configuring it with tsup

Tsc
Pro - It's typescript it's kinda the most obvious tool to use
Pro - Simplist to configure (sometimes)
Con - less forgiving than using esbuild
Con - slow
Con - boring

Parcel
con - meh

Rollup
Pro - most well documented build tool in js ecosystem
Pro - Plugin for everything
Pro - one build tool can do everything
Con - vite is basically a better version of rollup

Based on this I think we should try to consolidate to use vite everywhere

[holic]

vite -> tsup happened in #660

just need to do parcel/rollup ones now!

[holic]

we should probably document/clarify when to use tsup over tsc
(schema-type still uses tsc, which seems ~fine but unclear when to use which tool)