Implement --allow-big-block behavior from go-ipfs

[lidel]

This is JS tracking issue to match --allow-big-block behavior from go-ipfs (ipfs/kubo#8414 and ipfs/kubo#8696)

TLDR: bigger blocks can't be exchanged over libp2p, so we want to make a loud error if that happens, but allow people to override it if they know what they are doing.

ipfs object patch, ipfs dag put and ipfs block put should detect when produced block is over the soft limit of 1MB, and return an error:

produced block is over 1MB: big blocks can't be exchanged with other peers. consider using dag-pb for automatic chunking of bigger files, or pass --allow-big-block to override.

TODO

• object patch – based on fix(cli): object add-link: do not allow blocks over BS limit kubo#8414
• dag put – based on fix: dag|block put: do not allow blocks over BS limit kubo#8696
• block put – based on fix: dag|block put: do not allow blocks over BS limit kubo#8696

[whizzzkid]

js-ipfs is being deprecated in favor of Helia. You can follow the migration plan here #4336 and read the migration guide.

Please feel to reopen with any comments before 2023-06-05. We will do a final pass on reopened issues afterward (see #4336).