document how to use conflicts and exactly_one_of with nested fields

[melinath]

conflicts and exactly_one_of use syntax like the following for nested fields top_field.0.nested_field. This is because the nested objects are modeled as a list with a single item in it. We should document this.

Related: #12396

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