Bump to latest arrow release

[devinrsmith]

We are currently on arrow version 13.0.0; the latest is 17.0.0. https://arrow.apache.org/release/

During a quick test to see if 17.0.0 arrow FlightSql JDBC drivers fixed an issue, the server was unable to compile, I think due to flight-grpc version not available. (Note: I could create a new project to test the client in isolation, so bumping arrow versions on the server is not a technical blocker to getting a newer standalone client up... it just takes a bit more work to stand up that client.) Something may need changing wrt https://repo.maven.apache.org/maven2/org/apache/arrow/flight-grpc/; it seems to either have a different release cadence than arrow, or it has changed to a new groupId or name, or is no longer necessary.

Trying 15.0.2 (the last version where arrow flight-grpc was "in-sync") resulted in compiler errors, potentially related to the gRPC version. As such, this issue may be dependent on #5299.

[devinrsmith]

From the perspective of FlightSQL JDBC testing, it would also be nice to bump to pick up the logging fix apache/arrow#40908

[nbauernfeind]

Be sure to ping me to add a commit either to the upgrade PR or a follow up after the upgrade, to finish the ListView support I've added in my barrage type-mapping refactorings (PR not yet uploaded). I have everything except to check for the ArrowTypeID which doesn't exist in our current version.

[devinrsmith]

It's also more than a logging fix; it looks like older versions of the FlightSQL JDBC driver treat executeQuery("SELECT 1") as an UPDATE... which is pretty preposterous, but that seems to have been fixed in newer versions.