Improvement: abandon internal patches of parquet2

[dantengsky]

Summary

We have two internal patches of parqeut2, which mainly address the requirement

• acquire the parquet file meta, right after the parquet file has been written, without re-read the file

It works, but awkwardly: each time we sync with upstream(official parquet2), there are some extra works to do (rebase, resolve potential conflicts...)

Among the new features that parquet2 has introduced recently, the following two seem to be able to resolve the above requirement.

• Added support to write sidecar jorgecarleitao/parquet2#147
• Fixed missing re-export of FileMetaData to allow using side-car API jorgecarleitao/parquet2#148

Thus,

• we should replace our own internal patches using the new APIs that parquet2 exposes.
• and pin the parquet2 cargo dependency to the rev of the official parquet2 commit

[Xuanwo]

Let's go upstream first!

[dantengsky]

internal parquet2 patches are not totally abandoned yet ( for data format backward compatibility). after all the old data has been migrated, we should switch to the upstream parquet2,

[BohuTANG]

It's time to remove https://github.com/datafuselabs/parquet2 and https://github.com/datafuse-extras/parquet2 ?