Update Code of Conduct - Better ways to engage

[zmon]

@jasonfharper finally found my notes to update the Code of Conduct

• There is no one named "they" or "them"
• No need to repeat, sounds like criticism, you can follow up with email, slack, or an issue
• when addressing a problem give a solution or request a solution
• we are here to solve a problem, not to beat problems to death
• Is it useful, kind, and nessary - this came from three things to review your emails before pressing send.
• the best way to have volunteers be productive is for them to have fun while working on projects.

[jasonfharper]

I like these.